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			<title>Mulberry bag-Frugal consumptive idea is that people in the consumer should maximize the save material wealth, reduce or even eliminate waste of a kind of consumption</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[&#12304; frugal consumptive idea &#12305;<br />Though you have a <b><a href="http://www.getjealous.com/mulberrybags11/journal/2558236/mulberry-bag-fg08-autumn-and-winter-woma.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">mulberry bag</a></b>,you have to own the following conception.<br />Frugal consumptive idea is that people in the con...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[&#12304; frugal consumptive idea &#12305;<br />Though you have a <b><a href="http://www.getjealous.com/mulberrybags11/journal/2558236/mulberry-bag-fg08-autumn-and-winter-woma.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">mulberry bag</a></b>,you have to own the following conception.<br />Frugal consumptive idea is that people in the consumer should maximize the save material wealth, reduce or even eliminate waste of a kind of consumption. This is the earliest form of human history, most affected and longest a consumption. Can say, since when mankind produces to this day, the consumption are all more or less, or strong or weak affect people's consumption behavior and consumption patterns. Chinese and foreign economic history, the frugal consumptive idea thinkers and numerous school, but from the existing information, see, China's economic history that "the thrift thinkers and scholars seems to be some more. A Chinese history is said spending a Chu chung of history and extravagant spenders I'm afraid and much. Of course, this is not said China's consumer history have no other spending, but that advocates thriftily, against luxury, it is China's consumer the mainstream thoughts. In the 20 century before mankind overall production capacity still rather low, this makes the material wealth hard-won, support human life life data is very scarce. In order to seek survival and development, people can only leave no stone unturned to life of the economy of data. To do so we can make limited consumer material maintain more people's survival, to the production process and put more production material. Material determines consciousness, thought reflect the reality, thus they generate far-reaching consumer history, of enduring frugal consumptive idea. Frugal consumptive idea to the development of human society huge role, work not died. In the level of social productive forces rather low, it is extremely short time of the materials, it is with material material cost-effective use of that man had a long hard times, just be breeds and development to this day. If human ancestors, poor luxury desire, spend too recklessly, human would have for wealth drained and destroyed. As an example, once its of the ancient Greek is in people's arrogant excessive is high, the decline in crumble completely.<br />So value and maintain your <b><a href="http://mulberrybags.inube.com/blog/864991/take-mulberry-bag-go-out-pay-attention-to-your-looks-is-that-suitable-to-you/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Mulberry handbag</a></b>, and save the resource.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 20:01:55 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>How to find permanent relief food addiction</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Emotions are the number one cause for for emotional eating behavior. The most common reason for compulsive eating is to fill a need of some kind, ofte</p>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emotions are the number one cause for for emotional eating behavior. The most common reason for compulsive eating is to fill a need of some kind, often a need like intimacy that isn't met elsewhere in our lives. It is the same for alcohol and drugs; we seek external pleasure from these things because they are lacking in our lives.</p><br /><p>Inevitably , compulsive eating behavior is rooted in something psychological. No one says one day "I want to become a compulsive eater." This type of compulsive or binge eating behavior is trigged by external things which are outside our control, like stress, lack of intimate relationships, or even boredom.</p><p>Finding permanent relief for compulsive eating is a process that takes time, but is dependent on one crucial step: finding the cause. Only by fully understanding why the compulsive eating behavior takes place can we really start to fix it.</p><br /><p>In order to overcome compulsive or binge eating struggles , consider what might have made you binge in the first place. &#160;What made you binge the first time? Why would you say that you need something outside, an external stimulus, like food or alcohol to solve an inner emotional need? How can you fill this need in a more positive way?</p><br /><p>Thinking about these things is important to fully finding compulsive eating help that will solve the problem forever.<br /></p><p>If you find that you struggle with compulsive eating or binge eating problems, you should take a step back and think about what is lacking in your life. Do you find that you have few close friends or people you can turn to for emotional support? It can be hard to share our feelings with others, but it is a necessary part of human life, and if this is not done, we will find some other way to fulfill that need, usually through alcohol, drugs, or food.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 06:26:55 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>IPADS COULD BE USED IN TREATING KIDS WITH CORTICAL VISUAL IMPAIRMENT</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[The iPad is not only a device used for entertaining, but it might be therapeutic for kids with severe vision problems.<br />New findings reveal that Apple&#8217;s...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[The iPad is not only a device used for entertaining, but it might be therapeutic for kids with severe vision problems.<br />New findings reveal that Apple&#8217;s tablet may have the ability to improve cortical visual impairment, after noticeable differences were seen in children with this condition.<br />&#8220;We gave 15 toddlers between the ages of three and four with cortical visual impairment an iPad to play with and were completely shocked with the results. Children with the disorder don&#8217;t usually look directly at people and objects, but they were completely drawn to the light of the iPad and could interact with objects on the screen,&#8221; said Muriel Saunters, assistant research professor at the University of Kansas&#8217; Life Span Institute.<br />Children that suffer from this condition work with therapists and parents by using a light box so they have an easier time seeing lights and objects in high contrast. While they will look out the window into bright sunlight, they will not look at faces or objects, appearing to be blind.<br />After using the iPad, the results were remarkable, and parents started circulating the news on social media, as their kids started interacting with the objects on the screen in a way they had never interacted with any object before.<br />Saunders is currently working on a grant proposal to the National Institutes of Health to conduct a study and see if the iPad are, indeed, helping these children.<br />&#8220;The iPad could be a huge resource in helping kids with cortical vision improvement see better in the future,&#8221; Saunders said.<br />The iPads are already being used with children with autism as they help them adjust to sensory overload.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 06:20:20 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>The Story of Sadhu Sundar Singh</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<b>[[[ Sadhu Sundar Singh, the story of this great man of God always inspired me. I remember having a thin book of around 70 pages saying the full life s</b>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>[[[ Sadhu Sundar Singh, the story of this great man of God always inspired me. I remember having a thin book of around 70 pages saying the full life story of this great man who walked the face of this earth, specially in my homeland India. During that time when I got that book from one of my relatives I was only 11 or 12, the book was in Kannada language, I still remember reading that book again and again and again so many times and never got fed up. ]]]<br /><br />http://sadhusundarsingh.homestead.com/<br />http://sadhusundarsingh.homestead.com/files/story.htm<br /><br />His Family & Religious Background<br />His Encounter with Christ<br />His Travel Experiences<br />His Mission & Fate</b><br /><br /><b>&#8220;Jesus Christ was there in the room, shining, radiating an inexpressible joy and peace and love, looking at him with compassion and asking, "Why do you persecute me? I died for you ..." [Acts 9:1-5] At that time, Sundar realized that Jesus was not dead but alive. Sundar fell on his knees before Him and experienced an astonishing peacefulness which he had never felt before. The vision disappeared, but peace and joy lingered within him.&#8221;</b><br /><br /><b>His Family & Religious Background</b><br /><br />One hundred and twelve years ago on September 1889, Sundar Singh was born to Sher Singh of Rampur, Punjab in northern India. His mother, a deeply religious woman, nurtured him in the noble traditions of the Sikhs. Sundar often spoke of his mother with much love and respect because of the good foundation she laid for his life to come. Little did anyone know what God was about to do with this keenly intelligent and disciplined young man. <br /><br />He was raised in the luxury of his family's wealth. As a Sikh, Sundar was taught about Hinduism and came along with his parents to Hindu and Sikh temples. By the age of seven he had already memorized Bhagavadgita, the intricate Hindu dialogue containing spiritual life lessons. At sixteen, not only had he mastered the Vedas, the ancient sacred books of Hinduism, but he had also read Qur'an, the sacred book of Islam. He then got acquainted with some sadhus who taught him Yoga. A sadhu is a Hindu who devotes his entire life to his religion and forsakes all the worldly pleasures. Sundar remained single and jobless. He travelled all over India wearing a yellow robe without any food and without having any permanent residence. He lived only on the charity of others. <br /><br />The life of Sadhu Sundar Singh was most remarkable in its Christ-likeness. Being born amidst the depths of Indian culture and religion, and into a Sikh family, during the early part of his life Sundar's mother would take him week by week to sit at the feet of a sadhu, an ascetic holy man, who lived some distance away in the rainforest. It was his mother who first encouraged him to become a sadhu. She once told him, "Do not be selfish and materialistic like your brothers, but seek for your peace of mind and hold steadily onto your faith. Be a sadhu." However, he never achieved peacefulness in his meditations. Owing to his mother's connections with some women from a British mission in Rajpur, Sundar was able to enter the school run by the missionaries. It was there that Sundar was first exposed to the Bible. He wasn't interested in the Bible at that time. Instead, he ardently buried himself in Hinduism and yogic practices. <br /><br /><b>His Encounter with Christ</b><br /><br />But with the death of his beloved mother when he was only fourteen years old, his life had changed dramatically. The young Sundar grew increasingly despairing and aggressive. Convinced that what Jesus had taught was completely wrong, he tore the Bible apart and burned it. He even threw stones at preachers and encouraged others to do likewise. His hatred of the local missionaries and Christians culminated in the public burning of a Bible which he tore apart page by page and threw into the flames. <br /><br />Still, however hard he tried, he couldn't find the peace he had been seeking for in his own religion. He reached a point in his life where committing suicide crossed his mind. Yet before long Sundar was intent on taking his own life. Sundar had arrived at a point of desperation: he had decided to throw himself under the Ludhiana express if God did not reveal to him the true way of peace.<br /><br />     Three days after he burned the Bible in front of his father, he woke up at three in the morning and went out into the moonlit courtyard for the ceremonial bath observed by devout Hindus and Sikhs before worship. He then returned to his room and knelt down, bowed his head to the ground and pleaded that God would reveal himself. Yet nothing happened. He was thinking of throwing himself in front of the train that would pass at 5 a.m. every morning behind their house, in the hope that he would find peacefulness in his future reincarnation.<br /><br />     He had not known what to expect: a voice, a vision, a trance? Still nothing happened, and it was fast approaching the time for the Ludhiana express. He repeated his prayer once again. He lifted his head and opened his eyes, and was rather surprised to see a faint cloud of light in the room. It was too early for the dawn. He opened the door and peered out to the courtyard. Darkness. Turning back into the room he saw that the light in the room was getting brighter. At first he feared that the room was on fire. But nothing happened. He then thought that it might be an answer to his prayer. While watching the light, he suddenly saw Jesus' figure in the radiance. To his sheer amazement he saw not the face of any of his traditional gods, but of Jesus the Christ.<br /><br />     Jesus Christ was there in the room, shining, radiating an inexpressible joy and peace and love, looking at him with compassion and asking, "Why do you persecute me? I died for you ..." [Acts 9:1-5] At that time, Sundar realized that Jesus was not dead but alive. Sundar fell on his knees before Him and experienced an astonishing peacefulness which he had never felt before. The vision disappeared, but peace and joy lingered within him. <br /><br />Thereafter his life was transformed. He wanted to be baptized. Although his family tried to prevent him from his intention, he was determined. In 1905, on his birthday, he was baptized in an English church in Simla. At that time, he decided to become a sadhu, so that he could dedicate himself to the Lord Jesus. As a sadhu, he wore a yellow robe, lived on the charity of others, abandoned all possession and maintained celibacy. He was convinced that this was the best way to introduce the Gospel to his people since it was the only way which his people were accustomed to. In addition, he also wanted to be free to devote himself to the Lord. <br /><br />Having become a Christian, he was renounced by his father and ostracized by his family. On October 16 1905, Sundar wearing a yellow robe, barefooted and without provisions, resumed his nomadic life from village to village, but this time he followed in Jesus' footsteps. From here on the life of Sundar Singh became most Christ-like. Being unwilling to denounce his Master in the face of his family's rejection, Sundar took the saffron robes of the sadhu and began a life of spreading the simple message of love and peace and rebirth through Jesus. He carried no money or other possessions, only a New Testament. <br /><br />"I am not worthy to follow in the steps of my Lord," he said, "but like Him, I want no home, no possessions. Like Him I will belong to the road, sharing the suffering of my people, eating with those who will give me shelter, and telling all people of the love of God." <br /><br /><b>His Travel Experiences</b><br /><br />In 1906, he went to Tibet for the first time. That country attracted him, primarily because of the great challenges it presented against evangelism. "There will be very strong opposition and persecution there. High above the tranquil snowclad Himalayan peaks, there will be a lot of time and opportunities to meet God and to read the Bible," he thought. On his way to Tibet, he met Stoker, an American missionary who also wore a yellow robe. Sometimes they spent the night together under a tree or in a mountain cave at an altitude of 5000 meters above sea level, without enough food. Happily they endured all the hardship for the sake of spreading the Gospel. When Sundar became ill, Stoker got them a place to stay in a house belonging to a European. Inspired by Sundar's faithfulness towards God and sincere love towards other people, the host repented his sins and gave his life to serving the Lord. <br /><br />Following the advice of his friends, Sadhu enrolled himself in St.John School of Theology in Lahore. After studying for two years there, he resumed his travel. An eyewitness reported his experience with Sundar, "I encountered Sundar Singh as he was walking down a mountain trail to proclaim the Gospel to us. He then sat on top of a tree, wiped the sweat off his face and sang a hymn about the love of Jesus to us. The audience was not impressed by the song. One man came forward from the audience, pulled Sundar down from the tree and knocked him to the ground. Silently, Sundar got to his feet and began praying for these hostile people. He then told us about the love of Jesus who had died to redeem all sinners. Because of that I repented and so did the attacker." That was not the only time when Sundar won souls for the Lord by adhering to Jesus' instruction which says, "Do not take revenge on someone who wrongs you. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, let him slap your left cheek too." (Matthew 5:39). <br /><br />One day in Nepal, Sundar was ambushed by four robbers in the middle of a jungle. One of them brandished a sword. Meekly, Sundar bowed his head thinking that his life was about to end. This attitude surprised the perpetrators. Since he was penniless, they took his blanket away from him and let him go. But then, one of the robbers called him back and curiously asked his name. Sundar introduced himself, opened his Bible and started telling him the story of the rich man and Lazarus the poor. The robber said that the end of the rich man's life was unpleasant and asked what would happen to himself. Sundar then told him about the Gospel and God's forgiveness. The robber took Sundar home with him and repented. <br /><br />In 1912 Sundar decided to imitate Jesus' seclusion and fasting for 40 days even though his friends advised him against it. He failed to fast for 40 days because he became weak. However the experience strengthened his spirit. He could thus overcome all doubts, anger and impatience. <br /><br />In the following years, he was often persecuted but he was also miraculously delivered by the Lord. In 1914, Sundar preached in Nepal, a country with a very strong root of Buddhism. In the town of Rasa, he was sentenced to death by a local Lama on the grounds of spreading a foreign religion. He was thrown into a dry well the top of which was then covered and locked from the outside. He was without food and drink, naked inside the well together with corpses of executed murderers. He stayed in the horrible well for 2 days until a stranger came and helped him out of the well. After relocking the well, the stranger left without saying anything. Not long after that, Sundar was recaptured and taken to the Lama. The Lama was very surprised since he had always kept the only key to the well with him. Realizing that Sundar was under the protection of a very powerful God, they became fearful of him and begged him to leave them. <br /><br />In 1918, Sundar visited Madras where thousands of people gathered to listen to him preach. There Sundar focussed his preaching on Jesus Christ the redeemer. He testified, "Jesus' presence always brought astonishing peace to me no matter how bad the situations I was in. Whenever I was in a prison, he was always there for me. He transformed the jail into a heaven and the burdens became blessings. There are many Christians who do not feel His glorious presence as something real. Because for them Jesus only occurs in their minds and not in their hearts. Only when someone surrenders his heart to Jesus can he find Him." <br /><br />Sundar often used parables in his preachings. He once said, "One day after a long journey, I rested in front of a house. Suddenly a sparrow came towards me blown helplessly by a strong wind. From another direction, an eagle dived to catch the panicky sparrow. Threatened from different directions, the sparrow flew into my lap. By choice, it would not normally do that. However, the little bird was seeking for a refuge from a great danger. Likewise, the violent winds of suffering and trouble blow us into the Lord's protective hands." <br /><br />Sadhu Sundar Singh journeyed much. He travelled all over India and Ceylon. Between 1918-1919, he visited Malaysia, Japan and China. Between 1920-1922 he went to Western Europe, Australia and Israel. He preached in many cities; Jerusalem, Lima, Berlin and Amsterdam among others. Sundar remained modest despite his fame. His attitude made his father repent. Sundar never thought of himself. He only desired to follow Jesus' example: to repay evil with kindness and to win over his enemies by love. This attitude often caused his enemies to feel ashamed of themselves. Once, he was preaching in a public market when a fanatic from a different religion suddenly punched his right cheek. Calmly, Sundar turned his left cheek towards the assailant. The attacker left. But that night Sundar received a message from the attacker asking for forgiveness. On another occasion, Sundar told some harvesters about the parable of the weeds. They became annoyed and cursed him. One of them threw a stone at Sundar's head. At that instant, the stone thrower was struck by such a painful headache that he had to lie down on the ground. Without hesitations, Sundar took over that man's chore and helped them harvest the crops. They soon became friendly to him and invited him home. Their hearts were then open to the Gospel. The next day after Sundar left, they noticed that their harvest became more abundant. <br /><br /><b>His Mission & Fate</b><br /><br />Being unwilling to denounce his Master in the face of his family's rejection, Sundar took the saffron robes of the sadhu and began a life of spreading the simple message of love and peace and rebirth through Jesus. He carried no money or other possessions, only a New Testament. <br /><br />"I am not worthy to follow in the steps of my Lord," he said, "but like Him, I want no home, no possessions. Like Him I will belong to the road, sharing the suffering of my people, eating with those who will give me shelter, and telling all people of the love of God." <br /><br />He travelled India and Tibet, as well as the rest of the world, with the message that the modern interpretation of Jesus was sadly watered down. Sundar visited Tibet every summer. In 1929, he visited that country again and was never seen since. Sundar manifested into his life the verse written in Mark 8:35 which says, "For whoever wants to save his own life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for Me and for the Gospel will save it."]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 02:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>The truth of the cabbage soup diet</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>The cabbage soup diet is a 7 day meal plan, aimed at achieving fast weight loss. It is said to have originated Sacred Hearts Hospital to stimulate wei</p>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The cabbage soup diet is a 7 day meal plan, aimed at achieving fast weight loss. It is said to have originated Sacred Hearts Hospital to stimulate weight loss for surgery patients.</p><p></p><p><strong>How the Cabbage Soup Diet Works </strong></p><p></p><p>The cabbage soup diet is based on a fat-burning soup that contains negligible calories. The more soup you eat the more weight you should lose. The cabbage soup diet is a radical weight loss diet designed around heavy consumption of a low-calorie cabbage soup over the time of seven days. It is generally considered a fad diet, in that it is designed for short-term weight loss.</p><p></p><p>The typical claimed intent of the diet is to lose 10 pounds (4.5 kg) of weight in a week , though nutritional experts point out that it is impossible to lose that much fat within a week.</p><p></p><p><strong>Cabbage Soup Diet Plan</strong></p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 1 - Cabbage soup plus as much fruit as you like , excluding bananas.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 2 - Cabbage soup plus vegetables including 1 jacket potato with a little butter.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 3 - Cabbage soup plus fruit and vegetables excluding potatoes and bananas.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 4 - Cabbage soup plus up to eight bananas and as much skimmed milk as you like.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 5 - Cabbage soup plus up to 20 ounces of beef and up to six tomatoes.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 6 - Cabbage soup plus as much beef and vegetables (excluding potatoes) as you like.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Day 7 - Cabbage soup plus brown rice , vegetables (excluding potatoes) and unsweetened fruit juice.</p><p></p><p><strong>What Food is Allowed on the Cabbage Soup Diet</strong></p><p></p><p>Dieters are allowed only water and cabbage soup they want , plus a very restricted set of other foods. The 7-day cabbage soup diet plan insists on sticking to the small list of allowed foods on alternate days, along with two daily bowls of fat-free cabbage soup. Other specific foods that can be eaten including fruit, vegetables, skim milk, and meat. Dieters are also advised to drink plenty of water.</p><p></p><p><strong>What Food is Not Allowed on the Cabbage Soup Diet</strong></p><p></p><p>You are allowed to eat all you want of brown rice , unsweetened fruit juices, and vegetables as specified in the diet. Be sure to eat your soup at least once everyday. No bread, alcohol, or carbonated beverages, not even diet soda.&#160; Beverages are limited to water, and unsweetened fruit juice on days when fruit is allowed.<br /> <br /><strong>Effectiveness&#160; of the Cabbage Soup Diet</strong></p><p></p><p>Weight loss will probably occur due to the low calorie intake. It allows people to eat as much cabbage soup as they want each day, which should sound appealing to dieters. After all, dieters love to hear that they can eat unlimited amounts of food and still lose weight fast. It is not a long-term weight loss solution, but is known to be effective over the short term.<br />Known Benefits of the Cabbage Soup Diet</p><p></p><p>On some original documents mentioning the diet , it was claimed the diet is designed for obese heart-surgery patients, so they could lose weight quickly and therefore be at lower risk of complications during surgery. However, these claims remain unverified. Because no one has ever officially claimed to be the creator of the diet, there really isn&#8217;t any reputable organization that represents it.</p><p></p><p><strong>Additional Suggested Health Benefits of the Cabbage Soup Diet</strong></p><p></p><p> &#42; Fast weight loss.</p><p></p><p> &#42; The change from some of our normally junky eating habits can be&#160; beneficial.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Vegetables from the Brassica family (such as cabbage, broccoli, cauliflower) have been found to aid in preventing cancer.</p><p></p><p><strong>PotentialRisks of the Cabbage Soup Diet</strong></p><p></p><p> &#42; This diet plan is not recommended for children and adolescents.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Since the cabbage soup diet only last for seven days, this diet plan shouldn't cause people in good health any long-term problems, but people who have special dietary needs, including diabetics, should definitely consult a doctor before starting the cabbage soup diet.</p><p></p><p> &#42; After one week, dieters must stop for at least two weeks before attempting the diet once more.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Do not do this diet more than four times a year or more than once every three months. It is not a long-term solution to weight loss.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Due to the lack of energy that the cabbage soup diet will give you, your energy stores in both your muscles and liver will be greatly reduced , resulting in a lower body fluid content, which results in you headache and feeling tired throughout the day.</p><p></p><p> &#42; You may get too much sodium from the combination of soup mix, bouillon and juice.</p><p></p><p> &#42; It has also been noted that flatulence (the presence of a mixture of gases in the digestive system) is a common side effect of the diet.</p><p></p><p> &#42; Dieters often report feeling nauseous whenever they smell the soup toward the end of the 7-day diet plan.</p><p></p><p><strong>What the Experts Say About the Cabbage Soup Diet</strong> </p><p> </p><p>Many individuals  and medical professionals are critical of the diet. It is claimed that most of the weight lost is water and not fat, and therefore not permanent. In addition, the recipe for the soup as often given has an extremely high sodium content, usually to make it palatable, and the diet provides practically zero protein for several days at a time. Many people report feeling weak and light-headed during the course of the diet.</p><p></p><p>The blandness of the soup means that few manage the entire seven days, and oftenreport feeling nauseous whenever they smell the soup toward the end of the week-long diet. However some diets such as the negative calorie diet basically look at the nutritional properties of the cabbage soup diet, and make it more interesting by combining other foods that have the same effect.</p><p></p><p><strong>Bottom Line</strong></p><p></p><p>Weight loss will occur due to  the low calorie intake.</p><p></p><p>Consensus is&#160; this is not a very nutritionally sound plan and certainly not one to live on.</p><p></p><p>Extensive use can damage your health and this diet is one that should not ne used as a primary long term method for weight loss. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2011 04:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Life's Adventure]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[The spirit is always in the air<br />She whispers songs of love and grace <br />Of love and longing true and fair<br />She fills us with life all of our days<br />And lea...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[The spirit is always in the air<br />She whispers songs of love and grace <br />Of love and longing true and fair<br />She fills us with life all of our days<br />And leads us to go beyond our normal ways<br />To become more than we ever imagined<br />To bloom more than we have aspired<br />To tread the paths with courage yet unknowing<br />To face the darkness of our fears believing<br />That in the end of all our adventure is peace<br />That the ultimate goal of our journey is bliss]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 03:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Lunar Eclipse</title>
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			<description>I watched the Lunar Eclipse on the 20th/21st from Eagle, AK while doing field site maintenance for the University of Alaska Fairbanks.  It was -23F.  ...</description>
			<content:encoded>I watched the Lunar Eclipse on the 20th/21st from Eagle, AK while doing field site maintenance for the University of Alaska Fairbanks.  It was -23F.  I poked my head out of the equipment hut every 10 or 15 minutes to watch it while getting the aurora monitoring equipment running for the season.  At 11:30 I was back at the town and it was during totality.  I could see the faint moon, to the left was the constellation Gemini, below and to the right was all of Orion just on the horizon.  It was a site to behold.  The next morning, the moon was still setting behind the hills.  Unfortunately, I did not have a camera that would take the shot.</content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Spotting stars - my first time last night</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<b>13/02/2011<br /><br />Last night, star gazing was exhilirating. I would have preferred an interesting partner by my side to share this experience but instead I wa</b>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>13/02/2011<br /><br />Last night, star gazing was exhilirating. I would have preferred an interesting partner by my side to share this experience but instead I was accompanied by big fat mosquitoes that were so annoying. The blood suckers kept buzzing in my ear. It took a while to settle down as I got my binoculars to focus on the sky. <br /><br />I put my mat on the floor and lay down so I wouldn't get a neck sprain at the end of my pursuit. I was trying to find the bull's two horns, the bright stars eldebaran(bull's eye) and elnath. I thought I could draw an imaginary line and make the shape as I had drawn it on a piece of paper.<br /><br />A few minutes past, the sky was a heavenly abode filled with twinkling stars and the mysterious moon shining right on my face. What a sight - absolutely gorgeous. I felt jealous of the people who own a telescope and live out of the city. <br /><br />I thought I saw eldebaran(the fiery red star) as it was described in the website I am following until i checked this morning. I think what i spotted was Betelgeuse which is also a bright red star right opposite to the Orion's belt. Ohhh, it was beautiful though with the waxing moon gibbous right next to it. A sight to hold. I held my breath for a while, (well yeah - I am such a drama queen, but that's me)<br /><br />The famous Orion's belt as some of you may already know is three bright stars in a short straight row with equal distance from each other. Can't miss it.<br /><br />First time in my life, I ever tried to draw imaginary lines in the sky - let my imagination loose and just have fun. I want to do this more often.<br /><br />Some tips for the first timers: <br /><br />1. The good news is You don't need a bloody telescope to spot stars. Most of them are visible with a decent binoculars.<br /><br />2. If you don't have a set of binoculars - jeez...just find the moon and gaze at it for a while. That's relaxing.<br /><br />3. Know how to find the pointers such as the Orion's belt, north star and others. They show direction.<br /><br />4. Lastly, if you are in my city, use a non poisonous repellent spray on your body so you can have some peace of mind ;-) </b>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2011 07:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Transform Your Life in 2011</title>
			<link>http://wingsforall.com/JMEEKS/blog/transform-your-life-in-2011/</link>
			<description><![CDATA["QIVANA is a powerful money-making opportunity that anyone can do because it's super-simple and you can earn a full-time income with part-time effort....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA["QIVANA is a powerful money-making opportunity that anyone can do because it's super-simple and you can earn a full-time income with part-time effort."<br />-Qivana is using the next generation in relationship marketing to bring our products and opportunity to the market place, it's called Cross-Platform Marketing. -We connect the world end-to-end (E2E) through Multi-Linking. -We utilize unique twists in Internet technologies that include: the web, cell phones, PDAs, satellite, live video and many other forms of connectivity. -In addition, we teach more than 40 other ways to build your business. -Men and Women of all ages and all backgrounds are working with us. -If you don't have time, we show you how to find people who do. -95% of our team are non-sales type, we don't knock on doors. -70% of our team are non technical types. -We can show you how to work from home & make big money doing it. "Timing is Everything!" -The most exciting and best time to make money is by joining in the beginning before "momentum" begins so that you can benefit from this tremendous growth period that occurs ONCE in a company's lifetime. -Qivana is on track to hit momentum in 2010. -During this period your income could increase by 10 -20 times itself. -Experts are predicting that Qivana will be one of the BIGGEST OPPORTUNITIES OF OUR LIFETIME and you have a chance to join right now ... in the beginning!<br />"Also it would be important you know that Qivana's management team have all run 100 million dollar plus companies and our CEO helped to take a 10 billion company ... to 23 billion dollars."<br />-Our management team's skill and experience is unparalleled in this industry. -There's nothing like them in business. Qivana is capitalized so it is "built to last." -Qivana did over one million dollars in our first week and is breaking every record there ever was in this industry. -Our billion dollar management team is "the best of the best" and is sincerely focused on your success. Join TODAY!<br />How may I serve<br />Jerry Meeks<br />Independent Business Owner<br />jmeeks124@gmail.com<br />video presentation http://www.qteamuniversity.com/AJwhy.htm]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 28 Dec 2010 04:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Energetic preparation for the holidays</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<b>Energetic preparation for the holidays</b><br /><br />The holiday season can be challenging.  For my readers in the United States, it starts with preparations for T...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>Energetic preparation for the holidays</b><br /><br />The holiday season can be challenging.  For my readers in the United States, it starts with preparations for Thanksgiving which is celebrated the fourth Thursday in November: November 25th.   In Canada, the holiday season starts after Hallowe'en and Remembrance Day.  When does the holiday season get started where you live?  Please let me know.<br /><br />People may find the holiday season challenging for all sorts of reasons.  For some it is the stress of the expectations that go along with the season.  This is on top of the stressful situations many people are already experiencing with the sluggish economy in many parts of the world.  So what is a person to do?  Try these energetic techniques.<br /><br />Step 1:    Take a look at your expectations for the holidays.  Do you have a really long to-do list?  How long is the list for gift-giving?  Are you responsible for hosting holiday festivities?  Take a few moments now and write down your list of expectations.  Write them all down.  All the things that usually happen during the holidays that have an impact on you.<br /><br />Now, review the list.  First, identify the items on your list that bring you joy and lift your spirit.  Now, look over the rest of the items.  Have these things become a habit?  Do you need to do them?  Or are they things that you think are important to other members of your family?  Now, an important question.  If you think that some of these items may be important to other members of your family, have you asked them?  At this point, you can ask family and friends if these items really matter.  If they do, maybe you can accomplish them another way.  The key here is to review your holiday expectations with your family and friends.  Get agreement on the must-dos and let the rest go.  Yes, let them go.  Shorten your list of expectations for you, your family and your friends and enjoy the shortened list to the fullest.<br /><br />An aside:  Gift giving can get challenging as well.  Consider other types of gifts.  Make up coupons giving family and friends gifts of your time.  You can make up coupons for child care so friends can have an evening out.  You can give a coupon for dog-walking, hugs, or an afternoon skating or tobogganing.  You get the idea.  Give coupons that give others the gift of you.  Also, family can come together and decide to give money to favourite charities rather than giving gifts.  After all, what do you give people that have most everything they need?<br /><br />Step 2:    Now, use you imagination.  Imagine that it is January 2011, the holidays are over and you are telling a friend about your holidays.  You are describing one of the best holidays ever.  What are you telling your friend?  What does this best holiday look like?  Imagine the holiday in all its glory.  Use all your senses.  What did you see?  Who was with you?  Where were you?  What were you doing?  How did you feel?  What did you here?  What did you smell?  What did you taste?  What did you touch?<br /><br />Now that you have imagined your best holiday, you get to set an intention.  Use the information that came from your imagination to set a intention for your upcoming holidays.  For example, a relaxing, joyful fun holiday with family and friends that creates memories that last a life time.  Now, take a few moments and write your own high intention for the holidays.<br /><br />Step 3:    Use energetic techniques for clearing and protection.  One of the gifts you can share with the planet is to clear people, places and situations.  Are there locations where heavy energy from previous holidays may be lurking?  Since holidays are an annual event, heavy energies can build up unless they are cleared away.  If a location comes into your consciousness, use the whirlwind technique to clear that location.  Imagine whirlwinds spinning and spinning and spinning in that location.  The whirlwinds spin picking up heavy energy until they have all they can hold.  They take the heavy energy away, release it safely where it can be used for good and return to do more clearing.  Let the whirlwinds continue in this way until you feel that it is clear enough for now.  Next, ask yourself what other things you can use to do further clearing or cleaning.  You amy use angelic cleaning services, scrubbing bubbles, energetic vacuum cleaners and so on.  Use whatever comes into your consciousness.  Next, fill the cleared space with the energies that you do want: love, joy, friendship, faith, wisdom, peace, etc.  You get to choose.<br /><br />Are you sensitive to the emotional energy of people around you?  If you are, you may benefit from using protection.  You  ask yourself what form of imaginary, energetic protection is in my highest good?  Some people use white light, bubbles, imaginary armour.  Whatever comes into your consciousness is fine.  I have a wonderful Merlin's cloak that covers me from the top of my head to the tip of my toes.  It is purple with silver and gold embellishments and is very soft to the touch.  My merlin's cloak protects me from the energies around me when I put it on.  Protection allows you to participate fully in all that is going on around you.  It provides protection from the energy around you.<br /><br />I recommend that you use protection when you are going shopping.  Shopping malls are full of the stress of the season.  You can protect yourself from that.  Also, if there are members of your family or friends that you find draining, use your protection.  These people may be draining your energy.  It is likely done unknowingly on their part.  Put on your protection and feel as upbeat and energetic at the end of your visit as you did at the beginning.  ;~}<br /><br />These are only a few of the energetic techniques you can use to have one of the best holidays ever.  For even more ideas, listen to my VoiceAmerica Talk RAdio show from November 16th.  You will find a link later in the ezine.<br /><br />To the best holidays ever,<br />Karen<br /><br /><b>With thanks from the source: <u>www.spiritconnections.com</u><br /><br />&#169; 2010 SPIRIT Connections</b>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 20 Nov 2010 16:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>Dr. Harmander Singh</dc:creator>
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			<title>Be Incredible</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<b>Be Incredible</b><br /><br />There is nothing better than a championship. It doesn't matter if it's my college roommate and me in the horseshoe championship of Northe...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>Be Incredible</b><br /><br />There is nothing better than a championship. It doesn't matter if it's my college roommate and me in the horseshoe championship of Northeast Missouri State University (which we did win in 1992). Or, a real championship, such as a high school basketball title; championships are special.<br /><br />To that end, I used to attend as many of the Missouri State high school basketball championships as I could. Every March, my wife and I would make our way to the Hearnes Center on the University of Missouri campus to watch the best of the best play for a chance to experience a dream, wear a medal and call themselves the best.<br /><br />It's something really, the championship game. Each team is given a corner of the arena. There, teen-agers dressed and painted in school colors pack together to cheer their team. Over the years, we have heard all sorts of cheers. I remember cheers, more like yells and screams, from the cheerleaders from the all boy private prep schools. I recall cheers from cheerleaders with enough team spirit that they may have been pulled for a 'speed' drug test. I recall another cheering squad with as much enthusiasm as the coach's white board. But, the cheer that stands out didn't come from a cheer leading squad, but from a student body and community.with one memorable word.<br /><br />The game pitted two opposites. The legendary Vashon High School Wolverines from East St. Louis, an inner city type school with a great basketball tradition. They were facing another St. Louis school, a private St. Louis school, known for wealth. The private school had cheerleaders and a very large following, probably filling in over 4,000 seats.<br /><br />Vashon was much the opposite. Behind Coach Floyd Irons, the team traveled with a fraction of the fans and no cheer squad.'they will have to do their talking on the court,' I thought as the game began with the opening tip.<br /><br />Both teams were talented. Led by a short and strong point guard, Vashon was poised and in control. The private school was talented as well, and aggressive on defense. The game went back and forth early, with both teams trading baskets. But, by the mid-point of the second quarter, Vashon opened an eight-point lead. After a time out, the private school trapped a Vashon ball handler in the corner. That's when the Vashon crowd, above the noise and screams of the 4,000 fans in the opposite colors could be heard chanting, 'Be incredible.B-E IN-CREDIBLE...Be Incredible, Be incredible." And, right on cue, the ball handler broke the trap, passed to a teammate who found another for an easy basket.<br /><br />And, that's how the game unfolded. Vashon held on tightly to a ten-point lead, fighting off a talented team and huge opposing crowd. Each time they were challenged, their fans would stand and cheer, "Be incredible, B-E INCREDIBLE. Be incredible, be incredible!"<br /><br />"It is a very funny thing about life," W. Somerset Maugham once wrote, "if you refuse to accept anything but the best you very often get it." It has been well over a decade since I watched gold metals being gently placed around the necks of the young Vashon players. I have forgotten the score of the game, the name of the preppy private school and even each team's colors. But, when life is pressing me down and I seem to be double teamed in a corner, I will pause, take a deep breath and recall a cheer from my past. One that pulls and tugs greatness out of me when I don't think it's there. A cheer that is full of confidence in what I can do, even when I'm not. I pause and allow an echo in my head, "Be Incredible, B-E In-credible!'<br /><br /><b>Matt Forck, CSP & JLW, is a speaker and author residing in Columbia, MO. This story is from Matt's new release called, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1449997732?ie=UTF8&tag=insighofthe02-20&linkCode=xm2&camp=1789&creativeASIN=1449997732" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Check Up From the Neck Up - - 101 Ways to Get Your Head in the Game of Life</a>; a book focused on helping the reader increase energy, gain perspective and find and keep balance. To learn more about Matt or to comment on today's story go to: <b><u>www.thesafetysoul.org</u> </b></b><br /><i><br /><b>With thanks from the source: <u><u>www.InsightoftheDay.com</u></u><br />Copyright &#169; 2010<br />All rights reserved</b></i>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 16:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>Dr. Harmander Singh</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA[Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl is among the most influential works of psychiatric literature since Freud]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA["Just as a small fire is extinguished by the storm whereas a large fire is enhanced by it - likewise a weak faith is weakened by predicament and catas...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA["Just as a small fire is extinguished by the storm whereas a large fire is enhanced by it - likewise a weak faith is weakened by predicament and catastrophes whereas a strong faith is strengthened by them."<br /><br /><b>Viktor E. Frankl</b><br /><br /><b>1905-1997, Holocaust Survivor and Author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273/ref=dp_return_1?ie=UTF8&n=283155&s=books" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Man's Search for Meaning</a> </b><br /><br /><br /><b>Amazon.com Review</b><br /><br />Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl is among the most influential works of psychiatric literature since Freud. The book begins with a lengthy, austere, and deeply moving personal essay about Frankl's imprisonment in Auschwitz and other concentration camps for five years, and his struggle during this time to find reasons to live. The second part of the book, called "Logotherapy in a Nutshell," describes the psychotherapeutic method that Frankl pioneered as a result of his experiences in the concentration camps. Freud believed that sexual instincts and urges were the driving force of humanity's life; Frankl, by contrast, believes that man's deepest desire is to search for meaning and purpose. Frankl's logotherapy, therefore, is much more compatible with Western religions than Freudian psychotherapy. This is a fascinating, sophisticated, and very human book. At times, Frankl's personal and professional discourses merge into a style of tremendous power. "Our generation is realistic, for we have come to know man as he really is," Frankl writes. "After all, man is that being who invented the gas chambers of Auschwitz; however, he is also that being who entered those gas chambers upright, with the Lord's Prayer or the Shema Yisrael on his lips." --This text refers to the Mass Market <br /><br />Paperback edition.<br /><br /><b>Review</b><br /><br />"Unconditional faith in an unconditional meaning is Dr. Frankl's message to the reader." -- The American Journal of Psychiatry<br /><br />"Perhaps the most significant thinking since Freud and Adler." -- The American Journal of Psychiatry --This text refers to the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0671023373/ref=dp_proddesc_2?ie=UTF8&n=283155" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Mass Market Paperback</a> edition.<br /><br /><b>Product Description</b><br /><br />Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl's memoir has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. Between 1942 and 1945 Frankl labored in four different camps, including Auschwitz, while his parents, brother, and pregnant wife perished. Based on his own experience and the experiences of those he treated in his practice, Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. Frankl's theory&#8212;known as logotherapy, from the Greek word logos ("meaning")&#8212;holds that our primary drive in life is not pleasure, as Freud maintained, but the discovery and pursuit of what we personally find meaningful.<br /><br />At the time of Frankl's death in 1997, Man's Search for Meaning had sold more than 10 million copies in twenty-four languages. A 1991 reader survey by the Library of Congress and the Book-of-the-Month Club that asked readers to name a "book that made a difference in your life" found Man's Search for Meaning among the ten most influential books in America.<br /><br />Born in Vienna in 1905 Viktor E. Frankl earned an M.D. and a Ph.D. from the University of Vienna. He published more than thirty books on theoretical and clinical psychology and served as a visiting professor and lecturer at Harvard, Stanford, and elsewhere. In 1977 a fellow survivor, Joseph Fabry, founded the Viktor Frankl Institute of Logotherapy. Frankl died in 1997.<br /><br />Harold S. Kushner is rabbi emeritus at Temple Israel in Natick, Massachusetts, and the author of several best-selling books, including When Bad Things Happen to Good People.<br /><br />William J. Winslade is a philosopher, lawyer, and psychoanalyst at the University of Texas Medical School in Galveston. <br /><br />Please read more about this book from the source: <br /><br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273/ref=dp_return_1?ie=UTF8&n=283155&s=books" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Man's Search for Meaning</a><br /><br />as recommended and referred by www.InsightoftheDay.com <br /><br />(Copyright &#169; 2010 InsightoftheDay.com All rights reserved)<br /><br />Thanks for your time reading it.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:18:04 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Building Trust</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<b>Content<br />Trust is defined in the following ways<br />Here are some beliefs of people who have problems trusting<br />What behavioral traits do people need in order </b>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>Content<br />Trust is defined in the following ways<br />Here are some beliefs of people who have problems trusting<br />What behavioral traits do people need in order to develop trust?<br />What steps can be taken to improve trust building?</b><br /><br />Trust is defined in the following ways:<br /><br />Letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you.<br /><br />Sharing your inner feelings and thoughts with others with the belief that they will not spread them indiscriminately.<br /><br />Placing confidence in others so that they will be supportive and reinforcing of you, even if you let down your mask and show your weaknesses.<br /><br />Assuming that others will not intentionally hurt or abuse you if you should make an error or a mistake.<br />The inner sense of acceptance you have of others with whom you are able to share secrets, knowing they are safe.<br /><br />The sense that things are fine; that nothing can disrupt the bond between you and the other.<br /><br />The ability to let others into your life so that you and they can create a relationship built on an understanding of mutual respect, caring and concern to assist one another in growing and maturing independently.<br /><br />The glue or cement of relationships that allows you to need others to fulfill yourself.<br /><br />Opening yourself up to let others in on your background, problems, concerns and mistakes with the assurance that they will not ostracize you because of these things.<br /><br />The act of placing yourself in the vulnerable position of relying on others to treat you in a fair, open and honest way.<br /><br />People have trouble developing trust if they have:<br /><br />Experienced a great deal of emotional and/or physical abuse and/or neglect.<br />Been chronically put down for the way they feel or for what they believe.<br />Been emotionally hurt in the past and are not willing to risk getting hurt in the future.<br />Had problem relationships in the past where they were belittled, misunderstood or ignored.<br />Experienced the loss of a loved one through death. They can get so caught up in unresolved grief that they are unable to open themselves up to others, fearing they will be left alone again due to death or abandonment.<br />Experienced a hostile or bitter divorce, separation or end of a relationship. They may be unable to believe anyone who opens up to them in a new, committed relationship.<br />Been reared in or have lived in an environment emotionally and/or physically unpredictable and volatile.<br />Experienced a great deal of pain at the hands of another. Even if the other finally recognizes and accepts the responsibility to change such behavior, the person fears that if they let their guard down, the pain and hurt will begin again.<br />Low self-esteem and cannot believe that they are deserving of the attention, care and concern of anyone. They have problems even trusting the positive, healthy and reinforcing behavior of another who is sincere.<br />Experienced a great deal of non-provoked victimization in their lives. They are unwilling to trust people, situations or institutions for fear of being victimized again.<br /><br />Here are some beliefs of people who have problems trusting:<br /><br />I have been hurt too much in the past, and I refuse to be hurt again now or in the future.<br />People are out to get all they can from you, so avoid them to survive.<br />As soon as you let your guard down, you will be stepped on again.<br />No one is to be trusted.<br />You always get hurt by the ones you love.<br />I get no respect from anyone.<br />All men (or women) are dishonest and are never to be trusted.<br />Everyone is out to get me.<br />I am never successful in picking partners, so why try again?<br />As soon as you care and open up to someone, they will always leave you.<br />Marriage is the pits.<br />There is no such thing as a healthy relationship.<br />You can never let your guard down because all hell will break loose.<br />All reformations are short-lived.<br />If I give in and believe you have truly changed, relaxing my defenses, I am most certainly going to be hurt again once you backslide.<br />There is no such thing as change in behavior. It is only manipulation by others to get their way with you.<br />Everyone is out to get as much as they can out of you.<br />There is no such thing as a fair employer, generous company or supportive workplace.<br />It is better to live alone for the rest of my life than to risk being hurt as I was.<br />I will never let you know my true feelings again since, if I do open up, I'm afraid you will use them against me to hurt me.<br /><br />What behavioral traits do people need in order to develop trust?<br /><br />People need to develop the following behavior traits, attitudes and beliefs in order to develop trust:<br />Hope in the goodness of mankind. Without such hope, people can become emotionally stuck, reclusive and isolated. Hope in goodness is a change based on the willingness to take a risk that all people are not evil, bad or ill-willed.<br /><br />Faith in the fairness of life. This faith in fairness is similar to the "boomerang belief," that what you throw out to others will come back to you eventually in life. So if people are fair, honest or nurturing, they will eventually receive similar behavior aimed back at them. Having faith in fairness is an attitude that helps people be open to others and risk being vulnerable. They believe that the person who treats them negatively will eventually "get it in the end!" and be punished in someway later in this life or in the next.<br />Belief in a power greater than yourself: This is the acceptance of a spiritual power with greater strength, wisdom and knowledge than you; one with a divine plan to include your experience, whatever you will encounter in life. Rather than believing that you are 100 percent in control of your destiny, belief in this spiritual power enables you to let go of over responsibility, guilt and anger. This lets you accept God's will in your life and enables you to let go of your distrust and isolation from others. If God is in control of the universe, you can lighten your load and let God do some of the leading in your life.<br /><br />A healing environment. This is the creating of a trust bond with the significant others in your personal life where blaming, accusing and acrimony do not exist. In the healing mode the participants actively use forgiveness, understanding and healthy communication to resolve problems and issues. The participants are then willing to forget, to let go and to release themselves of the past hurts, wounds and pain, opening themselves to trust one another.<br /><br />Reduction of a sense of competition. This reducing of competition, jealousy and defensiveness with significant others in your life is a way to reduce the barriers between you and them. The lowering of these psychological barriers is essential to the movement toward development of mutual trust.<br /><br />Self-disclosure of negative self-scripts. Your disclosing of your inability to feel good about yourself and your perceived lack of healthy self-esteem are essential in reducing miscommunication or misunderstanding between you and the significant others in your life. This self-disclosure reveals to the others your perspective on obstacles you believe you bring to relationships. This sheds the mask of self-defensiveness and allows the other to know you as you know yourself. It is easier to trust that which is real than that which is unreal or hidden.<br /><br />Taking a risk to be open to others. This enables you to become a real person to others. It is an essential behavior in trust-building between two people, because it is the establishing of the parameters of strengths and weaknesses on which you have to draw as the relationship develops.<br /><br />Becoming vulnerable. This enables you to be hurt by others who know your weaknesses and strengths. This is an essential step in trust-building between people. It lays the cards on the table in a gamble that in such total self-revelation the others will accept you for who you really are rather than for who they want you to be. In order to get to full self-disclosure you must take the risk to be vulnerable to others. This is an important building block in trust development.<br /><br />Letting go of fear. Fear restricts your actions with others. Letting go frees you of behavioral constraints that can immobilize your emotional development. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of caring, fear of success, fear of being hurt, fear of the unknown and fear of intimacy are blocks to the development of trust relationships and can impede relationship growth if not given appropriate attention and remedial action.<br /><br />Self-acceptance. Accepting who you are and what your potential is an important step in letting down your guard enough to develop a trusting relationship with others. If you are so insecure in your identity that you are unable to accept yourself first, how can you achieve the self-revelation necessary to develop trust? Self-acceptance through an active program of self-affirmation and self-love is a key to the development of trust.<br /><br />What steps can be taken to improve trust building?<br /><br />Step 1: Read the material in this section and answer the following questions in your journal:<br />a. Am I lacking trust in persons, groups or institutions? If yes, in which persons, groups or institutions do I lack trust? How does this lack of trust manifest itself? This lack of trust looks like [put your answers here].<br />b. Why do I lack trust in the persons, groups or institutions listed under "a?"<br />c. What beliefs do I hold that are behind my lack of trust in the persons, groups or institutions listed under "a?"<br />d. What new behavior trait(s) do I need to acquire or develop in order to develop trust in the person, group or institution listed under "a?"<br /><br />Step 2: Now you should have a good idea of where your lack of trust lies. Why is this so? To change some beliefs and to fix this situation:<br />a. Take the beliefs in Step 1c and use the Tools for Personal Growth "refuting Irrational Beliefs" model to get replacement beliefs. Let go of the old beliefs.<br />b. Take the new behavior listed in Step 1d, and use the self-affirmation process in Tools for Personal Growth to make the new beliefs real for you.<br /><br />Step 3: Once you have let go of your irrational beliefs and have begun affirming new personal beliefs, try one or both of the following exercises to assist your development of trust:<br />a. Letter writing: To a person you have problems trusting, write a letter listing your reasons for the lack of trust, list the feelings and beliefs that block your trust, and ask the person to understand and assist you in this problem. Tell the person what you are willing to do and to commit to in order to change this situation. Also, tell the person what you are unwilling to do because of your personal integrity. Once you have written the letter you have three choices: (1) send it, (2) save it or (3) rip it up and throw it away. No matter what your choice is, you have spent the time to think out this problem and have identified your feelings, beliefs and the behavior involved. You have cleared your own "air waves," even if you never send the letter.<br /><br />b. Trust walk: Ask the individual you have been having problems trusting to share at least 90 minutes together. During this time you and the person will each take 30-minute turns being "blinded'' with a cloth and led by the "sighted'' person on a walk in a park, mall, neighborhood or building. The sighted person must give clear, precise verbal instructions and must not hold on to or grab the "blinded" person. The "blinded" person is allowed only to hold on to the left upper or lower arm or elbow of the "sighted" person. The "blinded" person can ask as many questions as needed. The "blinded" person does not determine the route of the walk. The "sighted" guide determines the route and destination of this walk. At the end of the first 30-minute walk, the two people exchange roles and blindfold and proceed with the second part of the walk for another 30 minutes.<br /><br />When both parties have played both roles, they should spend at least another 30 minutes discussing:<br />How comfortable was I in trusting you?<br />How comfortable was I in the "sighted" role?<br />How comfortable was I in the "blinded" role?<br />How important was mutual trust in making the trust-walk successful?<br />What were my feelings as I was being blindfolded?<br />What were my feelings as the "sighted" guide?<br />How clear were my verbal instructions for you?<br />How could I have improved my guidance?<br />How willing were you to accept my guidance?<br />What does this experience tell us about our trust of one another?<br />What does this experience tell me about my fear of loss of personal control?<br />What does this experience tell us about changes we need to make to develop mutual trust?<br />How willing are we to take a trust-walk once a month or until we have established a healthy level of trust in one another?<br />What are the remaining blocks to developing a sense of trust between us?<br />What are we willing to do to continue developing our sense of trust?<br />Step 4: If after completing Steps 1, 2 and 3 you still have problems developing trust in a person, group or institution, return to Step 1 and begin again.<br /><br />Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/14652-building-trust/#ixzz10Wme6BZh]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2010 10:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>63 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</title>
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			<description>Confidence is a tool you can use in your everyday life to do all kinds of cool stuff, not least to stop second-guessing yourself, manage your fears an...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Confidence is a tool you can use in your everyday life to do all kinds of cool stuff, not least to stop second-guessing yourself, manage your fears and become able to do more of the things that really matter to you.<br /><br />But not many people realise that their self-confidence works just like a muscle &#8211; it grows in response to the level of performance required of it.  Either you use it or you lose it.  That&#8217;s why I&#8217;ve given you 63 ways to grow your confidence so that you can become a giant.<br /><br />   1. Learning is a Good Thing, so sign up for that evening class and enjoy it.<br />   2. Get out of your own head by asking your partner or best friend what you can do for them today.<br />   3. Hit the gym.  The physiological effects will leave you feeling great.<br />   4. Go to a networking event and focus on how you can be helpful to other people rather than being nervous about your own stuff.<br />   5. Get crystal clear on the things that truly matter to you.  If they&#8217;re not in your life, you need to bring them in.<br />   6. Write a list of the things you&#8217;re tolerating and putting up with in your life, then write down how you can remove, minimise or diminish each one.<br />   7. Look at a great win or success you&#8217;ve experienced and give yourself credit for your part in it.  Recognising your achievements is not egotistical, it&#8217;s healthy.<br />   8. Next time you&#8217;re at a social event, don&#8217;t just stick with the people you know &#8211; go and have a conversation with someone you don&#8217;t know and you never know what &#8211; or who &#8211; you&#8217;ll discover.<br />   9. Next time you talk yourself out of doing something (a party invite, a challenging project or whatever else), say &#8216;What the Hell&#8217; and go do it anyway.<br />  10. Do one thing each day that makes you smile (on the inside or on the outside).<br />  11. Look for the patterns of thought that take you to a place where you start second-guessing or over-thinking.  Now imagine that your best friend went through exactly the same thought process and ended up holding themselves back &#8211; what would you want to say to them?<br />  12. Ask out that girl or guy you fancy the pants off (only if you&#8217;re single, don&#8217;t want to get you into trouble).<br />  13. You have to keep your mind well fed, so write a list of 20 things that keeps your mind feeling nourished and make sure you&#8217;re giving them room in your life.<br />  14. Stop playing different roles and squeezing yourself into boxes based on what you think people expect you to act like.<br />  15. Learn to catch yourself every single time you tell yourself that you can&#8217;t have, won&#8217;t get or aren&#8217;t good enough to get what you want.<br />  16. Take yourself off auto-pilot &#8211; make deliberate decisions on what really matters to you.<br />  17. Next time you come up against a risk or a challenge, listen to what you tell yourself and look for a way that that inner dialog can be improved.  Ask yourself, &#8220;What would make this easier?&#8221;<br />  18. Scared of looking silly? You and everyone else.  It&#8217;s no biggie so don&#8217;t let it stop you.  Say it with me &#8211; &#8220;It just doesn&#8217;t matter.&#8221;<br />  19. Don&#8217;t think for a second that you can&#8217;t be confident.  There are already loads of things you do with natural self-confidence, you just have to notice them and get familiar with how it feels.  Look for the things you do where the question of whether you&#8217;re confident enough never arises.<br />  20. Listen to your doubts but be ready to make deliberate decisions once you&#8217;ve heard them.  Sometimes your doubts are there to let you know what you need to prepare for, so you can use them to your benefit as you move forwards.<br />  21. Think of a time when it felt like a whole bank of switches in your head flicked to the on position and you were firing on all cylinders.  What were you doing and what&#8217;s the reason it felt so great?<br />  22. You&#8217;ve got a whole bunch of out-dated rules that determine what you do, don&#8217;t do, should do and shouldn&#8217;t do.  These rules limit your thinking and limit your behaviour.  Tear up your rule book and notice how free you are to make great decisions.<br />  23. Do you get annoyed with yourself because you didn&#8217;t make the most of something or stepped back form an opportunity?  Don&#8217;t beat yourself up because that&#8217;s just going to make you feel worse.  Instead, be brutally honest and ask yourself what you gained from the situation and what you lost out on.  Based on this win/lose balance, what&#8217;s a different choice you can make next time?<br />  24. If you&#8217;d already done everything in life you&#8217;d have no need to be scared.  Don&#8217;t ever think that being scared means you&#8217;re not confident, it simply means you&#8217;re going somewhere new.<br />  25. If there&#8217;s someone in your life who puts you down or makes you feel small, you owe it to yourself to let them know that you expect something different from now on.  You deserve better.<br />  26. Flirt.  It&#8217;s a harmless way to play around with connecting with people and having fun.<br />  27. Reveal a little bit of the real you in a relationship that might feel like it&#8217;s in a rut.<br />  28. Acknowledge and welcome all of your experiences &#8211; the good stuff as well as the bad stuff.  It&#8217;s all equally valid and hiding things away because you don&#8217;t like them is just creating conflict.<br />  29. Always recognise that you&#8217;re more than a match for any situation you might find yourself in, no matter how tough the going gets.<br />  30. Don&#8217;t get swept up in the drama of what&#8217;s happening right now, look for more useful ways of engaging with what happens in your life.<br />  31. Don&#8217;t automatically give in to the instant pay-off &#8211; it often means you&#8217;re selling yourself short.<br />  32. When you feel like stamping your foot and yelling &#8220;I deserve better than this!&#8221;, take a step back and say &#8220;I can BE better than this.&#8221;<br />  33. Confidence sometimes means admitting you&#8217;re wrong &#8211; always be ready to hold your hands up and change your mind.<br />  34. Trust your instincts.  They know what they&#8217;re talking about.<br />  35. Fear is a way of letting you know that you&#8217;re about to stretch yourself and grow your confidence.  That&#8217;s a good thing, so use it to take yourself forwards rather than run away.<br />  36. Imagine you&#8217;re visited by a successful, confident, attractive and vibrant version of you from the future, a version of you who&#8217;s everything you hope to be.  What do they want to tell you?<br />  37. Don&#8217;t feel like you have to do everything yourself &#8211; sometimes the most confident thing to do is ask for help.<br />  38. Take a chance on something tomorrow.  Anything, big or small, just take a chance.<br />  39. You need to be around people who make you feel like YOU, so spend more time with the people who support and encourage you and less with those who undermine you.<br />  40. Stop struggling against the things you don&#8217;t like in your life &#8211; create a congruent environment around you that flows and allows you to be you.<br />  41. No man&#8217;s an island, and you need to be a part of the world you around to feel confident.  What can you participate in that&#8217;s important to you?<br />  42. Forget the pro&#8217;s and con&#8217;s &#8211; do something bold in the face of your challenges and fears.<br />  43. Work on developing the skills you need to win at the things that matter to you.  What can you practice that would radically improve your chances of winning?<br />  44. The body is a mirror for the mind, so shifting your body into a confident state can have surprising results.<br />  45. Don&#8217;t get disheartened or demotivated when you get to 90% with something you&#8217;re working on &#8211; push through and you&#8217;ll see that the last 10% is where the magic happens.<br />  46. Keep comparing yourself to others?  Stop it, don&#8217;t try to validate yourself through comparison &#8211; you&#8217;re just peachy as you are.<br />  47. Put your head above the parapet at work and speak up if there&#8217;s something you think could be improved or if you have an idea you think has legs.<br />  48. If there&#8217;s something you&#8217;ve been struggling to understand for a while, stop trying to understand it.  Accept it just as it is, fully and wholly.<br />  49. Shy with new people?  Not a problem, there&#8217;s nothing wrong with being shy and it doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re not confident.  Just don&#8217;t overthink it, start beating yourself up or thinking you&#8217;re less than because you&#8217;re shy &#8211; the more you think like that the worse it gets.<br />  50. Your environment directly impacts your self-perception, so if you&#8217;re surrounded by clutter, paperwork and rubbish put a morning aside to clean up your stuff and get organised.<br />  51. Write yourself a list of the amazing things you&#8217;d love to do in your life, and make a start by simply looking into the first one or two things that leap out at you.<br />  52. Don&#8217;t make your happiness or self-worth dependent on being in a relationship or being validated by someone else.  Find your inherent value first, and your relationships and confidence will be immeasurably better.<br />  53. Your strengths can be used to overcome any of your weaknesses.  We all have weaknesses but they only undermine your confidence if you let them.<br />  54. The longer you leave that big thing on your to-do list the more it&#8217;ll drain you and the bigger it&#8217;ll seem &#8211; get it done and free yourself up.<br />  55. What golden threads, themes, patterns and passions have always been in your life?  If those things aren&#8217;t present in your life right now, you need to shift your priorities.<br />  56. Your body image does matter, because if you have a bad relationship with your body you won&#8217;t be feeling confident in yourself.  Get trim if you need to, just make sure you get along with your body.<br />  57. Being confident is an ongoing process.  It isn&#8217;t a goal or an end-point that you reach and then stop.  Keep playing to the best of your ability and your confidence will always be there to support you.<br />  58. Try a new path.  The well-trodden paths of your life can easily turn from familiarity to apathy and disconnection.  A new path wakes you up.<br />  59. Don&#8217;t say &#8220;Yes&#8221; to taking on a task simply because you don&#8217;t want to rock the boat &#8211; you can politely decline requests you can&#8217;t meet and don&#8217;t need to create an excuse for it.<br />  60. Look at the people you respect who seem confident &#8211; don&#8217;t copy them, but identify what it is they do differently that conveys confidence and what you can learn from it.<br />  61. Make a plan to do something, then make deliberate choices to follow through.  Seeing progress gives you important self-reinforcement.<br />  62. When you feel yourself focusing inwards and becoming paralysed with doubt or fear, switch to focusing outwards at what you can engage and interact with.<br />  63. Still beating yourself up for failing or screwing up? It might not be a barrel of laughs but it&#8217;s not going to help you get through it.  Much better to recognise that everything, whether it turns out or not, is how you practice living a rich life.<br /><br />With thanks from the source: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/63-ways-to-build-self-confidence.html]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 11 Sep 2010 04:40:22 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>Dr. Harmander Singh</dc:creator>
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			<title>Arthur and the Witch</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<b>Arthur and the Witch</b><br /><br />Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>Arthur and the Witch</b><br /><br />Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.<br /><br />The question...? What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.<br /><br />He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.<br /><br />Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer.<br /><br />But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.<br /><br />The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.<br /><br />The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!<br /><br />Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.<br /><br />He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden; but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur.<br /><br />He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.<br /><br />Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus:<br /><br />What a woman really wants, she answered....is to be in charge of her own life.<br /><br />Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.<br /><br />And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.<br /><br />The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.<br /><br />The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she<br />would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.<br /><br />Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day....or night?<br /><br />Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous intimate moments?<br /><br />What would YOU do?<br /><br />What Lancelot chose is below.<br /><br />BUT....make YOUR choice before you scroll down below.<br /><br />OKAY?<br /><br />Noble Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.<br /><br />Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.<br /><br />Copyright &#169; 2010<br /><a href="www.InsightoftheDay.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">www.InsightoftheDay.com</a><br />All rights reserved]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 19:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>Dr. Harmander Singh</dc:creator>
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